The fallout

Hi again,

so it’s week 4 of this endeavour my wife and I are going thru. For any that haven’t read my earlier post…. my wife and I had a Domestic fallout. it’s unfortunate that she called the police. I guess she didn’t know what would happen.

first of all, I never touched my wife in a way that would be seen as Abusive, I assume the police put those charges because in Ontario by law they have no choice but to pursue charges.

Yes it hurt! my life has been completely changed these last few weeks and the hurt during the time being in jail or the time afterwards when I was told by a Justice of the Peace that I was not to speak to my wife directly or indirectly. Or be within 50 meters of her.

in this time I have cried and have been forced to deal with the courts. Something that up to this point in time in my life had never been something I had to deal with.

I look forward for the moment I get to speak to my wife and begin the reconciliation with her. During this time I have been forced to live love the way that God intended.

This means that I have to show love and move to forgive her. and to fix this relationship. one thing that I have never considered is Divorce. this is out of love for her… and for my obedience to God.

I can’t tell you how scary it is though not to know what her thoughts are, I just pray that she will hang on to the lord as I am every day until we are able to speak to each other.

I love you and will not and have not given up on our marriage. What the Lord has unified may man not divide.

Our Big Adventure – Part 1

Hi All,

So this is supposed to be my wife’s project…. writing about marriage and stuff of the sorts. Seeing as how she hasn’t written on it as of yet. I thought I’d hijack it and be the first one to write on this blog.

So here it Goes!

we were married 08.15.15 and from the get go it wasn’t your typical wedding. for starters we didn’t wait over a year for the wedding date… it was almost 2 months to the date of the engagement. 2nd of all I didn’t buy an engagement ring. for any girls out there reading this close your mouths it shouldn’t be shocking :).

the reason I chose not to go that route is because a ring really wasn’t something that to me meant special. unless any of you didn’t know diamonds aren’t rare… and because my wife (at the time girlfriend/fiance) was the most important and special person to me how could I do what everyone else does.

so going forward… I’m looking to writing a little bit about my marriage adventure and what brought me here.